Is Oral Sex Real Sex?

Is Oral Sex Real Sex?

Is Oral Sex Real Sex?


There seems to be a movement in this recent generation where oral sex is considered part of “making out”. It’s all part of the ever evolving and sex driven trend that our society is facing, it is even considered a replacement by some for actual intercourse. Today we’ll expand on this statement a little more with some facts and food for thought.

If you’re curious why a sex toy store would be presenting a view point like this, we’re into safe sex and proper education. We want people to have real knowledge about the ramifications of their actions. We’re not dirty sex fiends trying to spread promiscuity around, we’re here to educate, serve and help people have better sex lives however we can’t deny the downside of some sex acts and the problems in our society.

Many women don’t mind giving men oral sex because it’s a great way not be loose your virginity or to “give it up” to a man she’s not really that interested in. Some women consider it a part of kissing or a modernized version of second base. We’re not all that opposed to this as it is a good form of birth control but there are some downsides to fellatio. The largest being the skyrocketing rate or oral HPV. Some recent reports show oral cancer linked to HPV is up more than 200% in the past 15 years. That’s quite shocking. You many think that teen pregnancies are lowered but that’s also untrue, the USA has twice the rate of unwanted pregnancies as any other industrialized nation.

When it comes to oral sex, it’s really a personal opinion if you should incorporate it into foreplay or not. Technically it does mean that you didn’t have sexual intercourse which is limited to a penis entering the vagina so it’s like a big loophole in the moral standing. If you’re going to enjoy oral sex then we always say you should use a condom.

Sexually transmitted diseases are of real concern, there are ads on Television in Canada for syphilis. It’s becoming a widespread epidemic and of major concern because the virus is becoming immune to the medicine. This is a big problem but it seems that many people don’t care. The approach to STD’s is “I can take come Medicine and make it go away” but what happens after the virus is rampant and medication does not work anymore? We’re coming to that real soon.

 

Condoms for Safe Sex

Oral sex or real sex? Regardless of what you choose, always wear a condom.

 

The days of courting and kissing are long over, unfortunately some women feel the need to perform oral sex to make the man like her and get her noticed. A good way to raise pre teens is to tell them that the girl that gives it up all the time is mocked behind her back. Think if it this way – if you want a type of candy but can’t get it, you want it more. You think about it even more. It’s always on your mind. A girl giving up her virginity or even oral sex in this case is so common, that type of candy is eaten every day without given a second thought.

If you refrain from oral sex or intercourse and keep your legs closed you will evolve a certain mystique around you, you’ll be different when other girls. Gus will respect you. We’re not one to give out parenting tips, but this stance is a really good once and in our opinion parents should talk about sex and respect with their teenagers and perhaps an epidemic can be avoided by a little interactive talking and some helpful guidance.

The conclusion that could be made is that oral sex is not real sex in the dictionary definition. Oral sex can be grouped into real sex because of the intensity of the act and the risk it carries. A popular sex therapist has an article and they share the same stance as we do on this, in fact our article was inspired by her works. Isadora Alman is a Board-certified sex, marriage, and family therapist, lecturer, author, and syndicated advice columnist who is a friend of ours and works with us, we respect her work and some of her sexuality articles can be found here: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-sociability/201108/is-it-real-sex

We think that a one night stand is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact you’ll probably run into an article writing about tips on getting the most of of a one-time encounter. Once in a while it’s fun to be really naughty but it’s very important to protect yourself. You have to make right decisions and personal restraint is always important. Pick and choose who your sex partners are, something you don’t have as often is better anyway, you’ll enjoy it more. The closing statement is that whichever route you choose, the most important thing is to take care of yourself. Remember to respect yourself, keep your dignity and always wear a condom.

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How to Make Dildo Boots


Back in May 2011, there was an episode of American Idol where the editors had some extra work to do on Lady Gaga’s outfit. It went by unnoticed by the masses but a few people took notice, especially the tabloids. The over-the-top modern day shock rocker made underground headlines once again for her out-there fashion sense.

Even if you watched that episode of American idol, chances are you wouldn’t have seen this odd ensemble anyway because every time it was in view there was a “perfectly placed” American Idol logo over, or some say blurring, like they do when they want to hide a brand name’s logo on a t-shirt that hasn’t been a sponsor of the show. If you have no idea what we’re talking about you’re probably really curious so we’ll spill the beans. Lady Gaga wore dildo boots.

Normally when a sex toy makes it mainstream, there is a flood of new releases proudly labeled “As Seen on TV” the best example being the Sex and the City Jack Rabbit Vibrator which is still a very famous sex toy even today. We looked for dildo boots for sale but to no avail. Enough time as passed where we doubt they’ll be made so here are instructions on how to make your own dildo boots. Plus it’s right in time as you’re probably thinking about sexy and risque Halloween costume ideas.

 

Lady Gaga's Dildo Boots

Lady Gaga's Dildo Boots - Make your own homemade version.

 

1.) Find the boots and do some math.

Buy the boots first, preferably stilettos. What we mean by “do some math” is you’ll need to calculate the height of the heel and compare it to the height of the dildo. Average dildo size is 6 inches but if you’re not into 6 inch heels, you may become crafty and get a saw to cut the dildo down. (That is only if you don’t buy a glass one, see the following tip for details).

The boots will need to have a wedge-type heel so that you’ll be able to connect the dildo base with the heel. Average dildo width is 1 1/2 inches. This measurement may be difficult to compromise with so we insist on the importance of a wider heel.


2.) Buy the right dildo.

Watch what the dildo is made of. Wouldn’t you look silly if you stepped into your boots for the first time only to have the heel collapse and you twist your ankle. Now that would be a funny emergency room visit.

We like a glass dildo, that’s probably what Gaga used on her boots since you can notice it’s clear and there is a swirl inside. This usually is characteristic of a Pyrex glass dildo and this would make the most sense since this style is by far the most solid. You’re not going to be able to saw down glass so what you see is what you get. Make sure the glass has a flattened bottom so you can glue it to the heel.

The Blue Swirl Glass Dildo is our favorite for this arts and crafts project, it’s very fashionable, it has a flat bottom and a penis shape which will surely get people cocking an eyebrow at your unconventional style. This one has blue swirls whereas Gaga’s had white swirls. These stand out better and would look great with a patent leather or PVC boot. If you’re feeling way frisky you can spring for a rubber penis but realistically you won’t be able to walk as good with it.


3.) Get the right tools.

You’ll need to remove the heel from the boot. An electric jig saw may work best. You may need to file the rest to make it level. Next is the glue. Rhino Glue makes some great claims by stating it’s used in glass manufacturing and shoe repair, this claim seems perfectly suited for this project. Glue and clamp preferably overnight to give the strongest connection.


4.) Get the right outfit.

You’ll nee something wacky, loud and sexy to blend with the boots. Maybe a dominatrix outfit or why not go right to the source and get a lady gaga costume? We’re sure your local costume shop has plenty of these in stock now.

It’s no coincidence this was released right in time for Halloween, hopefully we have just inspired you to take the greatest costume idea ever made and bring it to life for your adult Halloween party. If you have taken our advice and made your own pair of dildo boots, please email us a photo or leave a comment below and show us the picture. We’d love to see your creation.

 

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Sinsations Dolphin Vibrator Review


Upon first glance this looks like another run of the mill female sex toy with a dolphin, rabbit style. Yes they have harnessed the mass marketing of popular animals in adult toys but there’s a reason for this style.

I did not realize how little this vibe is, from the photo it appears as if it’s one of those bulky vibes but it’s quite petite, everything about it from the plastic bottom to the little penis shaped head at the top. This also means the dolphin is petite too however it’s a refreshing change of pace since you’ll be left with a different reaction then with a bigger vagina-stuffing vibrator.

The first thing I noticed is how jelly-like it is. I had to look twice on the packaging and lo and behold it states phthalates free. I guess technologically advances along with masses of complaints to sex toy manufacturers now results in similar jelly feeling rubbers without phthalates. This leaves me wondering “why couldn’t they have done that in the first place?”  That’s neither here nor there, well just continue on with the review now.

The plastic beads inside the Dolphin Vibrator offer the same ‘ol jiggle massage you’re used to and the head gyrates, no difference there. The shaft is thinner then normal which kind of left me wanting more but it’s like fetish tease to want something and not get it. The dolphin nose splits like he’s smiling and is perpendicular to the rabbit ears if you look at it right.A new concept that is unique compared to the side by side ears. The up and down is good for clitoral contact since the clit is more vertical anyways.

I like that it’s fully submersible however I noticed the rubber band on the controller that gives the water tight seal is quite thick so you will have to twist it rightly to make contact and seal off the battery compartment. For such a small sex toy it’s nice and powerful, not as much as some others but I wasn’t left lacking in sexual enjoyment at all. A good buy especially for first timer which is who it’s aptly marketed towards.

Dolphin Vibrator Review

Smaller then you think, as effective as you want.

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Buy the Best Double Harness


Strap on harnesses are quite popular sex toys for couples and there is a commonly requested style that is hard to find simply because the “important part” is not visible from the thumbnail photos on the website. We have complied this list of double harnesses to make it easy to compare them directly to choose your best one.

The term “double” refers to the incorporation of 2 attachments, one is for the vagina and one is the usual dildo that attaches to the front of the harness. The vaginal plug is not visible from a photo which is why it can be harder to find. We have 4 different models for sale, including one model that’s available in 2 colors.

Double Vibrating Harness

Double Vibrating Harness

 

1.) Double Vibrating Harness
This is our favorite choice. We like it because the harness has twin straps that hold the support for the vaginal plug. The plug is aptly named as it’s more blunt and is a great tease. It vibrates as well which is always a welcomed feature. A harness where the vaginal dildo is firm in place may not necessarily fit every woman’s form so if you’re not considered “average ” in size this should be your only option. Additionally it’s the largest waist size out of all styles accommodating up to a plus size  60 inch waist.

 

2.) Double Strap On Harness (available in black and white)
One of the more stylish options complete with faux leather crocodile pattern, contrasting stitching and a low rider bikini panty style of fit. Features a stout latex vaginal plug that is wide but very foamy like. The dildo attachment is longer and also softer. This version offers more comfort then all the others simply due to the latex attachments, it’s also the lightest.

 

3.) Double Delight Vibrating Strap On
Offering by far the most penetration for the wearer. It’s actually shaped like a real penis and is 5 inches long so when the wearer thrusts the dildo sways and gyrates inside the vagina. It’s a one of a kind feeling to be able to share the same motion that your partner will feel as the  thrusting transfers directly into your body. We give this one the thumbs up for it’s kinky factor.

 

4.) Vac-u-Lock Ultra Harness: Female
Stuff yourself full, it’s the next step up from the product listed in point number three. Offers 2 plugs one for anal insertion, the other for the vagina. Similar to item number one, the supports for the plugs can move in the strap. It’s intrusive, big and bulky especially with the penis attachments and the 2 plug-ins attached at the same time so if you like the feeling of being stuffed, squeezed and loads of sensation there is no other option. You can remove one or both of the plugs if you want something lighter.

 

Double Strap On Harness

Double Strap On Harness

 

These 4 styles are numbered according to the best sellers and the most popular. We agree with the ranking order as well, perhaps we have something to do with the reason these are ranked in this fashion; as when a customer asks us our opinion of which double dildo strap on to purchase, we will always refer them to these 4 in that particular order.

 

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Penis Extensions that Work


Men buy for penis extensions for 2 reasons. First is to get a longer penis and second is to reduce the likelihood of premature ejaculation. Depending on what you needs are, we have a few suggested products that should be purchased to accomplish your desired outcome.

If you want a longer penis, the latex extensions are the best for that; they offer the most length out of any style. Essentially a one to three inch long narrow foam pad with a latex coating on the exterior. It rolls on the penis like a condom. She’ll notice it’s silky smooth and you will still get to feel the warmth inside of the vagina.

Inside the Latex Penis Extension

Inside the Latex Extension

Even though they fit like a condom and look like a condom, it’s not a safe substitute as it won’t prevent the transmission of STD’s or prevent pregnancy and we advise that you wear a condom underneath anyway because the foam pad will be difficult to clean if you get it full of semen.

The latex extensions have a limited lifespan too as the foam will compact and deform due to the natural thrusting motion of sexual intercourse.

To get a the most realistic feeling you’ll want to buy a Cyberskin or Futurotic extension that will make you longer by an inch or two and it will also make you half an inch thicker unlike the latex versions which add no girth at all.

The Cyberskin is softer and may fall off if it gets too wet therefore the Futurotic is the better choice. The Futurotic and Cyberskin also reduce sensation for the man which will do a great job at preventing premature ejaculation. The less you’ll feel, the longer you can last, it’s a physical fact.

Favorite Penis Extension

Our Favorite Penis Extension

Don’t expect to be sneaky and put on an extension when the woman is prepping herself in the bathroom and then once you have intercourse don’t think she won’t notice. These are noticeable as it feels slightly different then a normal penis, the main difference being the firmer texture and lack of prominent mushroom head and she will know you’re wearing one.

We suggest being up front and telling her you’re going to put on a penis extension and it will prevent any awkward feeling. Some women really enjoy them, especially the styles that make your penis thicker.

To be honest, women don’t wish for a longer penis, they wish for a thicker penis. To summarize all of the above, the cheap latex ones are OK, but the Futurotic extensions are really the best. You’ll get a life like feel, longer and thicker erection, it will stay on much better even if it gets very wet and it has a softer exterior for her comfort. They will fit you slightly tight but it’s still stretchy enough to accommodate any size man as it comes in only one size.

Whenever a guy asks us for the best selling penis extension the Futurotic is the first one we suggest and we sell many and have never received a complaint.

Browse the selection of penis extensions and we also have others styles that are not mentioned in this article but may be addressed in the future.

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Super Stretch Cock Ring Review


We always see reviews for vibrators but cock rings are a really good toy for couples that’s often left in the dark. Just because they don’t have flashing lights and crazy patterns doesn’t mean that they don’t have the same effect.

Here is a perfect example of a device that’s always overlooked, The Super Stretch cock ring  looks strange and pointless to some but we gave it a test run and were pleasantly surprised with the results. OK we can’t go into it saying it was the most super-orgasmic explosive time we’ve ever had, let’s get real; it’s a piece of thick purple silicone.

What it will do for you is enhance sex a small amount, but a noticeable amount. The term enhance means in a positive way too. It’s quite subtle and what you’ll feel is the squishy padding on your labia when he pushes in very deep. I specifically enjoy this during non-ovulation times.

If you recall an anatomy lesson, the cervix is closed for about 25-28 days a month and this time deep penetration is usually uncomfortable, especially if you’re a petite woman. The padding reduced the inches he can sink in and reduces any of the interior poking and pinching when the penis head hits the closed and solid cervix.

It’s mighty stretchy and will fit him very and it wears quite loosely too and he enjoyed this very much. A good device that is ideal for something extra, maybe a good first timer’s sexual device because it’s so discreet simple and doesn’t really do much; not in a bad way but I mean that it’s subtle and shouldn’t scare anyone away.

Stretch Cock Ring Review

The cock ring that reduces the "ouch" factor.

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Real Sex Education


You’ll never find real sex education in high school or college. Sure you’ll learn anatomy and maybe how to put on a condom and quite often this lesson will quickly be shelved when the parents find out.

The real sex education comes from the school of hard knocks, life experiences and magazines. Cosmopolitan magazine for women and Maxim magazine for men seems to be the industry leaders when it comes to sex tips and advice.

I’ve read both publications quite frequently, being a past subscriber to Cosmo and Maxim was always the coffee table book of choice for my college guy friends. It’s always been interesting how each magazine writes it’s sex articles and suggestions to impress the opposite sex from each point of view.

Couple kissing

First we’ll analyze the advice found in Cosmopolitan. Most women readers would agree they’ve incorporated some foreplay advice and most tips have actually worked out quite well. Sometimes though they really miss the mark. Here’s a popular article called Cosmo’s 20 Favorite Sex Tips Ever.

The first tip called Randy Rub-a-Dub-Dub suggests taking a bath together.

If you look at the most common size dimension for an American a bathtub, is 5′ x 30″. If you compare this number with the average height of a man in the United States, 5′ 9″ and the average height of a woman is 5′ 3″.

With a quick mathematical calculation, you can plainly see that taking a bath together is far from romantic – it’s a pretzel puzzle and an awkward experience. You’ll need a hot tub or large jacuzzi to make it effective.

The man’s magazine on the other hand may suggest drawing a bath and filling it with rose petals but only the woman gets in. The guy will sit outside of the tub and massage her shoulders. Much smarter.

In tip number 5 called Putting on the Ritz, it suggests removing all the family photos and buying new bed sheets. If a woman actually thinks a guy will notice that – maybe she needs to pick up a Maxim magazine. We’re not against this tip at all, we just think that it’s for the woman only.

Guys don’t care about the setting, they care about you. Perhaps if you left up your family photos and spent more time applying pheromone infused vanilla scented body lotion you’d get more of a rise of of him – no pun intended of course.

The point we’re trying to get across is that you have to think about these suggestions and don’t expect too much. Most often they will end up being silly, like if they say put an ice cube in your mouth. Yes, it’s en erotic feeling but not that erotic to look at, she’ll look like a squirrel with a walnut in her mouth and once the cube starts to melt expect a runny mess everywhere.

The real point is that it’s great to try something new, in fact we really encourage it but you have to approach almost every new idea with a sense of humor. Being able to look at any situation in a lighthearted manner and not being too serious is a real turn on for both guys and girls.

If we were to write a sex tip, it would be to laugh and play silly. You’ll loose the passionate aspect that Cosmo magazine says is so important but who cares, to be able to laugh is sexy in itself. It will really be a night to remember in a very original way. If a girl is with a guy and she makes him laugh even in bed trying some silly tip, chances are this encounter will be remembered over all other serious lovers.

If you want a further breakdown of  magazine sex tips and their actual results, here is a perfect sex tips article courtesy of Maxim which has test drive reports on how some wacky suggestions actually worked out. Take a look and please feel free to comment on what you think.

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Reasons to Love Anal Beads


There are a few different types of anal beads available for sale, some are more popular then others but when compared to vibrators or dildos, they sell much less. They are even the least popular out of all anal toys which s unfortunate because there’s a boatload of pleasure that comes from these small underrated devices.

We’re here to set the record straight with a few reasons why you should love anal beads and we’ve even included a list for the 2 different styles.

 

Reasons to Love Molded Anal Sex Beads

 

1.) Easy to clean.
Silicone is one of the safest ways to enjoy any insertable sex toy however if you like the softness of jelly, they are still easy to clean. The entire strand is easily rinsed and sterilized with the use of antibacterial hand soap and hot water and since it’s all a single poured mold, there is not space for bacteria to hide and flourish.

 

2.) Slip and slide.
This stand is all interconnected and the sizes don’t vary so much so it glides easily and when lubricated, the glide is unlike any other material, the only thing that’s more slippery is glass, but glass anal beads aren’t really as effective as these kinds because they’re not flexible enough.

 

3.) A better “poke”.
Since this style is more stiff then the plastic counterparts, it digs in real deep which is a highly desired sensation. This can be said it crosses the line between anal beads and a butt plug.

 

Anal beads

 

 

Reasons to love Plastic Anal Sex Beads

 

1.) A bigger orgasmic impact.
nothing can compare with the bigger diameter of the plastic beads over the barely-there nylon rope when they are pulled out of the anus. It’s the reasons anal beads were invented in the first place and hardcore devoted fans dispute the fact that the silicone strands aren’t even real anal beads.

 

2.) Less intrusive.
Since these can coil up on each other, it won;t go very deep. instead all the balls will stay shallow within the rectum which gives better prostate pressure for men and the pushing feeling directly inside the anus can easily add a sensual tingle even before you pull them out.

 

3.) The cheapest option.
Normally costing half the price as the jelly beads it’s a better option for the budget conscious.

 

When a customer asks which is better, we like to recommend the single molded strands of beads for sanitary reasons and also becuase they do sell more then plastic. It’s easier to use and even though the sensation is not quite as strong, people who really enjoy their single strand often come back to upgrade to the plastic version.

If you’re unsure which you like then start at least with something because who knows, maybe you’ll become one of those devoted fans. It seems to happen after the first time and some adults swear on the use of beads becuase from a physical standpoint, the effect on the orgasms strength is quite intense. Perhaps another day we’ll touch on this topic in a future article. Keep checking back to our blog often!

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Waterproof Egg Vibrator Review


The first observation to make is the awesome visual appearance of this cheeky little egg. It’s very modern and almost cartoonish in style. One thing you can’t see from the photo is the texture on the controller. Plastic is so passe, a dusty velvet coating is very upscale in my opinion, it’s warmer and looks nice in it’s deep royal blue.

Waterproof Egg Vibrator

The Waterproof Egg Vibrator Stays Classy

I enjoy how the controller has inset buttons instead of a dial which is again a homage to current fashionable sex toy trends. The lack of a dial has double duty making the controller waterproof too.

It’s nice to have the controller waterproof because you can use it in the tub without having to worry about the battery pack falling off the edge into the water.

The Waterproof Egg Vibrator is much fatter then I’m used to but it was a pleasant surprise, it is less focused then a narrow torpedo bullet so you can put the whole egg within your bare labia and it feels quite nice.

If I were to change anything, I would have coated the egg in the same velvet the controller has to make it warmer. The power was good, exactly what you’d expect for 2 AA batteries and the noise volume is acceptable, not very quiet but not too loud either.

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Dildos: What’s Hot and Not


A New Dildo Design

A New Dildo Design - Trendy Does not Mean Popular

A Classic Dildo Design

A Classic Dildo Design - 13 Percent Higher Sales

There are definitely trends in sex toys, but it seems like dildos are relatively untouched by fads, however there is one fad that’s hot across all sex toy types: the demand for non toxic materials.

We’re commonly contacted by customers asking if the material is safe and since 2007, all Pipedream products have been phthalates free.

Recently Doc Johnson and California Exotics have transferred all their old mixtures to new safer materials while keeping the same best selling design. Most doc Johnson dildos are also latex free.

It’s not a new look that’s trendy, but new a new way of making sex toys that is the hot trend and we know this one is here to stay.

 

Luckily it’s easy to get what you want – pretty much all of our products are phthalates free and non toxic. Many people shy away from “vintage” looking sex toys fearing they’re not as good for you but the packaging is all redesigned and has it written on the front that it’s non toxic.

Now for the really interesting part: really old designs sell just as good as new designs.

Here’s an example. The line of Super Cocks have been around for about a decade, maybe even more and have barely evolved at all.

The line of Life Likes is only about 3 years old and has a more modernized look with detail that was not possible way back in the day. Astoundingly, the older dildo sells 13 percent more then the newer dildo.

It just goes to show that sometimes less is more and it’s tempting to fall for hot new trend looking sex toys, but sometimes the classic more simplified design works just as good.

We’re not sure the exact reason why the discrepancy in ales, and it’s even reinforced by the fact that the newer dildo is on the first cafe while the vintage style is on the second page. We still add new dildos all the time but we’re conscious not to overlook the hot selling classics of all time either.

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