The Tushie Touch that Matters

The Tushie Touch that Matters

The Tushie Touch that Matters

An unusual style of vibrator is listed in the catalog that spurs some raised eyebrows and inquiries about the efficiency of an appendage that is used for “anal tickling”. Not a term that makes most women have the urge to splurge but I was given the chance to try this vibrator out and was ridiculously impressed and am happy to promote this one with lavish warmth to every lady – even if you’re not keen on anal toys (which by the way, I am not) the experience this appendage gives actually heightens everything. I know that in the world of sex toys, “heightened” is a term grossly over-used but it applies fully to this vibrator.


Making A Vibrator Special

Looking similar to any clitoral vibrator the motor in the clit stim is strong, the little tip flickers directly on the clitoris and the entire main shaft can bend and stay where you put it, the white coil in the center is very stiff so it stays however it’s important to note the clear jelly is phthalates free, newly redesigned to be safer with a PVC based soft rubber and not the old style smelly-jelly.

Two motors exist just like any other popular clitoral vibrator but the real feature is the long anal tickler on the back side. I call it a tickler because that’s exactly what it is – perhaps an impossible feat to insert it into the anus, being super floppy and will prove useful only laying in between your butt cheeks when you insert the shaft into the vagina. Again not the most appealing image in the mind however the image does not matter – it’s the feeling that does.


How it Stacks Up

Wow does this ever deliver, one of the strongest female sex toys out there although it only uses 3 batteries I would compare the power easily to a 4 battery unit as somehow it seem to harness the power without any loss, delivering it strongly to the motors which exude all the pleasure a lady needs. The anal tickler does not vibrate, it sits in between the cheeks and tingles from the waves of vibration that come from the motors. It’s not a creepy feeling at all and the light tingle makes the whole bottom half of the body feel better with a certain unique sexual feel that I have never found with any other sex toy to date. Looking for only one vibrator to splurge on in 2012? Please, please make it the Triple Flex, you won’t be sorry, I promise!


Exploring the Idea of the Touchie Touch

In addition to a lavish orgasm. I also reached another conclusion – the light touch in the tushie matters. The most subtle of experiences yet carries a large impact on sexual enjoyment, I furthered my quest by seeking out other similar products and the anal toys category has a few more, The Mini beginner Anal Toy is a vibrating device similar to the backside of the Triple Flex and I requested a test run of this – I held it between the cheeks perpendicular to the anus and twisted the bottom – it is much more influential then the Triple Flex to no surprise as it offers direct vibration.

Being a more solid stick, easier to apply pressure which, as imagined, increases the tingling back there and the force of the pleasure up there. The only downside is I have to hold it continuously unless I lay on my bed to use a different style vibrator and sit on the anal toy, again not a pretty sight but totally functional. Would I ever do this? Perhaps however the Triple Flex allows me to enjoy the tushie touch hands-free.


Notice the similarities?


The New Style of Pleasure Discovered

I love it how a subtle back door touch enhances the entire body’s sensation. It’s neat to see such a simple thing give more pleasure then ever. It makes me wonder this style of sexual stimulation is not more popular, all I ever see is “stick it in” style butt plugs and anal plus butt it seems there is such a larger realm of anal sex toys that don’t need to be inside, outside is just as effective. As I discovered more styles online I will bring them home for a personal trial and I’ll report back the errors and the successes. Until next time!


Awkward Moments in Erotic Encounters

In the human mind lies this perfectly crafted situation of the ideal sexual encounter. Something so passionate and erotic, a romance novel brought to life. One of the hottest movie scenes originates from the 1986 release of 9 1/2 weeks starring Mickey Rourke Kim Basinger. Their perfect execution of utilizing foods in foreplay and movement of positions with ease is enough to leave any human highly aroused and tingling in their privates below. Some wish for a moment like this…

The perfect moment is shaken awake via reality shock!

Sex is far from perfect, bodies never seem to intertwine with ease as shown on movies, either XXX in mature or a movie with an R rating. The reality is our limbs move in certain ways what don’t always mesh with the partner, we fall over, slip, bump heads the list goes on and on.


How to deal with awkward moments in sex?

The best way is to approach it with a sense of humor. A chuckle shows the partner you’re lighthearted, you don’t take things too seriously and regardless of being male or female this is a character trait that’s most welcome and certainly appreciated. You’ll have better sex if you are more playful after all, it’s called forePLAY for a reason!

Another important tip for keeping your cool is to never place such high expectations of what a sexual encounter is going to be like. If expectations are too high, the after effects can be disappointing. In fact several articles and information sources cite that first time sexual encounters usually do not meet expectations becuase the person has been looking forwards to it for so long and expected sex to be magical, explosive and this is rarely the case. Often overinflated by the media including music videos, fornication between two people is made out to be much more then it really is.


Thank nature for these embarrassing moments!

An easy going personality is always sexy, even when the vagina expels air and it sounds like flatulence – which happens all the time and it’s a part of our bodies build. Commonly known as a “queef“, this embarrassing sound is created when the penis (or another object) has been thrust into the vagina causing a vacuum suction, when the air releases the “queef” is the resulting sound. Should a woman be embarrassed? Think of it this way – this is such a common occurrence that the alternative dictionaries of the world has added the term to their listings.

Performance anxiety can also create awkward moments. If the man cannot become erect, it’s always nice to have a vibrator there to give an alternative. Furthermore, using the vibrator will give him an enjoyable view further increasing the body’s ability to produce an erection through sheer visual arousal – crisis averted!


Take a break for a laugh.

For a couple of laughs, check out these series of photographs and clips depicting some awkward unintended sex moments not meant to be sexual. Ooh people have a dirty mind, don’t they ;)

Sometimes the major movie studios acknowledge sex’s messy moments and capture these into some of the funniest scenes around. Here is a compilation of what really happens during sex, well these are of course exaggerated for entertainment purposes but the general idea is written all over. All that matters is how it’s handled. Without further a due, the most awkward sex scenes in movies complete with video clips.

In the era of PVR’s people tend to fast forward commercials without ever watching them forcing advertisers to create some ingenious commercials, props go out to who created this hilarious commercial showing what a steamy sex scene straight out of a erotic novel would be like if converted into a  real life situation. Enjoy!



A hilarious awkward sex moment courtesy of Can’t Hardly Wait (1998)



Top 5 Sex Toys When You’re Bored with Sex

Even the greatest sex life succumbs to the Groundhog effect at some point in time. Just like in a career and everyday routine life, a person reaches their peak and after time the repetitive nature causes the excitement to fizzle. Being stuck in a slump is also a common complaint in a couple’s sex life. The online adult shop is your sex-life savior in this case and with the right guidance, a few products can be added to the repetoire to transform lovemaking into a stupendously insane adventure, or a more romantic depending on personal preference. For a couple looking to better the joy of sex, the following advice will assure falling in love with exploring the realm of sexual intimacy once again.



1.) Take a peek in the back door.

Further devided into 2 categories – first is the “stick in and leave” type of anal toy and secondly is the “foreplay” type of anal toy. Which degree suits an individual best depends on how adventurous they are. A stick in and leave is always better for the first timer. For 2 suggestions based on the above category descriptions, The Bender is really good for foreplay, and the Slim Red Plug is perfect for trying it for the first time. Please note however the slimmer design may not be able to stay in and sometimes a helping palm-of-the-hand is required to hold it in – some find it too cumbersome having to baby-sit the butt plug but at least it offers an indication if anal toys are enjoyed in the first place before investing money in a larger selection and higher end toys.


2.) Use Ben Wa balls during intercourse.

Normally used for pelvic floor exercises for women however did you know the original purpose was for added sexual pleasure? That’s right, from the Orient comes these weighted balls that are inserted into the vagina. The man will notice the stroking of the metallic spheres as he thrusts in and out and women enjoy the feeling of the balls rolling about rubbing the sensitive walls inside the vagina. It’s a sure fire way to enhance  pleasure but it’s important to use large unattached balls to avoid pinching or discomfort. The best recommendation is the Large Ben Wa balls which are noticeable without being to big for pleasure. To address some concerns right away – no, it’s not possible for them to “get lost” in the vagina as they will never be able to pass through the cervix and thanks to the help of gravity, you’ll always be able to pluck them out after use.


3.) Non-traditional bondage.

Suggesting handcuffs is so 1990′s. It’s been over done and there’s not have cuffs in your bedside table that simply indicates it’s not of interest. Everyone seems to have tried this by now. There are a few other interesting bondage ties that and slings that help ease your limbs when trying new positions or cuffs that hold the body in an upright standing position. For the couple who does not even look in the bondage category anymore thinking it’s only random colors of furry handcuffs, here’s saving some time and showing the best unconventional bondage supplies you should buy. The door cuffs and the doggie style sex sling are all the bondage accessories needed this year.


4.) Strap on sex.

Often the last frontier of sex play and quite frequently the first thing the couples will say when they’re done the heavy breathing post-orgasm is “why did we wait so long to try that?” There’s several variations from the unisex harness which is most recommended – you’ll never know when time comes to try gender bender. For some it’s a little too kinky and others will enjoy dabbling in this freakish type of sex. If  not something of interest, other harnesses have some big attachment for big fetish sizes for women and others vibrate and of course the DP harness is a kinky alternative gaining popularity when a couple likes to play very naughty.


5.) Get out of the bedroom.

All sex toys aside, a guaranteed way to make sex more fun is to get out of the bedroom. Have sex on the kitchen table, in a closet, on your balcony outside (perhaps at night so the neighbors don’t see!) Outdoors in the forest, in a tent while camping. Even in a strange place like the hallway makes the act feel more naughty, it’s incredibly arousing to be more taboo. A dildo would be the ideal novelty to bring into the great outdoors simply due to the nonexistent sound, a buzzing is quite obvious and the last thing you want is the bylaw officers invading a private moment! A tight space like a closet forces bodies to be close and immediately the intimacy is heightened. Being in the dark is also very sexy as the only way to navigate reach others bodies is through the sense of touch.


Yoga and a Better Sex Life

The Journal of Sexual medicine is one of the top ranked medical journals and just like National Geographic, each issue can teach you some incredible things about stuff you THOUGHT you knew. There’s always more to every picture and sex is certainly no exception. Unfortunately this is a taboo topic in our society, even in this modern century some adults still find it hard to talk about sex. Understandably so when in the search for real articles about human sexuality the internet is stuffed full of pornography which is hardly educational, although some men may disagree…

If you take the time to read some professional articles by doctors ans scientists  it can greatly refresh the way of thinking about sex. It’s a natural human activity and even required for the procreation of the species and even though the importance of a healthy sex life, many couples never talk about it and sadly many women never experience the joys of a full orgasm.

One of the recent articles talked about the link to Yoga and a better sex life. This is something we’re really for as a company as we’re constantly trying to lead people to a batter sex life and although sex toys are a good part of that, there are many other ways to have pleasurable sex life and yoga is one of those routes even though not direct another link has been proven.



Free your mind – better sex will follow.


Upon first thought it seems like the flexibility is the key, not quite the truth as if it were so then gymnasts would have the best sex life out of any of us! The real secret is yoga teaches mindfulness and relaxation. It allows the person to disconnect with everyday life and to focus on the task at hand. Being self aware is also the foundation of Tantric sex and the well-known Kama Sutra technique.

Yoga teaches to focus on each specific part of the body through the movements and be aware of what is going on. If you transfer this to your bedroom moment with your husband the link is noticeable – when you focus and be mindful on the manipulation of his fingers, it’s easy to experience the greatest orgasm. Follow the movements of your muscles, focus and concentrate on the release of energy. Think of a yoga technique and transfer all you have learned in between the sheets and an astoundingly better sex life is right there ready for you to take hold. Focus is another serious topic, the Journal of Sexual medicine also quoted that many women lack focus during foreplay and sex which inhibits their ability to fully get involved with the situation and creates a certain detachment which is a serious detriment to sexual satisfaction.


For the person not so keen on so-called hippie classes, here’s a brief run down of what to expect on your first yoga session and some other tips to help in the quest for fulfilled sexuality:

1. Don’t worry about lack of flexibility. This comes with practice like any sport. Over time you’ll develop these skills but remember – this is not the single secret to better sex. You want to relish the emotional and mental aspects of yoga over the physical.

2. Pick a spot in the back off to the side. Allowing a better view of the structure as well as the advanced “yogis” at the front who like to show off their skills. You can follow the people for several angles to maximize your position.

3. Mediate. Try guides meditation or self hypnosis – this is after your class. Sometimes an instructor can lead you to the right place to learn proper meditation techniques these can come in very useful especially if you’re a highly stressed person or your mind runs a mile a minute, you’ll need help learning to let go of the stress as this is key to mindfulness.

4. Focus on the physical. After the mindful part is fully realized, time to focus on the movements of your body. The stretches get your blood flowing and holding the position loosens your muscles. These motions will help as libido booster and get you in the mood for sex.

September is National Yoga Month so check the local listings for free first classes and discounts on memberships. Learn to meditate and focus your mind on one singular topic while shutting away the rambling in your head, when you can really clear your mind you’ll be a sexual shaman on the way to enlightenment and the final goal – better orgasms!

To read this and other articles from the Journal of Sexual medicine, the month’s issues are available for reading at the library online at


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