In the human mind lies this perfectly crafted situation of the ideal sexual encounter. Something so passionate and erotic, a romance novel brought to life. One of the hottest movie scenes originates from the 1986 release of 9 1/2 weeks starring Mickey Rourke Kim Basinger. Their perfect execution of utilizing foods in foreplay and movement of positions with ease is enough to leave any human highly aroused and tingling in their privates below. Some wish for a moment like this…
The perfect moment is shaken awake via reality shock!
Sex is far from perfect, bodies never seem to intertwine with ease as shown on movies, either XXX in mature or a movie with an R rating. The reality is our limbs move in certain ways what don’t always mesh with the partner, we fall over, slip, bump heads the list goes on and on.
How to deal with awkward moments in sex?
The best way is to approach it with a sense of humor. A chuckle shows the partner you’re lighthearted, you don’t take things too seriously and regardless of being male or female this is a character trait that’s most welcome and certainly appreciated. You’ll have better sex if you are more playful after all, it’s called forePLAY for a reason!
Another important tip for keeping your cool is to never place such high expectations of what a sexual encounter is going to be like. If expectations are too high, the after effects can be disappointing. In fact several articles and information sources cite that first time sexual encounters usually do not meet expectations becuase the person has been looking forwards to it for so long and expected sex to be magical, explosive and this is rarely the case. Often overinflated by the media including music videos, fornication between two people is made out to be much more then it really is.
Thank nature for these embarrassing moments!
An easy going personality is always sexy, even when the vagina expels air and it sounds like flatulence – which happens all the time and it’s a part of our bodies build. Commonly known as a “queef“, this embarrassing sound is created when the penis (or another object) has been thrust into the vagina causing a vacuum suction, when the air releases the “queef” is the resulting sound. Should a woman be embarrassed? Think of it this way – this is such a common occurrence that the alternative dictionaries of the world has added the term to their listings.
Performance anxiety can also create awkward moments. If the man cannot become erect, it’s always nice to have a vibrator there to give an alternative. Furthermore, using the vibrator will give him an enjoyable view further increasing the body’s ability to produce an erection through sheer visual arousal – crisis averted!
Take a break for a laugh.
For a couple of laughs, check out these series of photographs and clips depicting some awkward unintended sex moments not meant to be sexual. Ooh people have a dirty mind, don’t they
Sometimes the major movie studios acknowledge sex’s messy moments and capture these into some of the funniest scenes around. Here is a compilation of what really happens during sex, well these are of course exaggerated for entertainment purposes but the general idea is written all over. All that matters is how it’s handled. Without further a due, the most awkward sex scenes in movies complete with video clips.
In the era of PVR’s people tend to fast forward commercials without ever watching them forcing advertisers to create some ingenious commercials, props go out to Zoosk.com who created this hilarious commercial showing what a steamy sex scene straight out of a erotic novel would be like if converted into a real life situation. Enjoy!
The Journal of Sexual medicine is one of the top ranked medical journals and just like National Geographic, each issue can teach you some incredible things about stuff you THOUGHT you knew. There’s always more to every picture and sex is certainly no exception. Unfortunately this is a taboo topic in our society, even in this modern century some adults still find it hard to talk about sex. Understandably so when in the search for real articles about human sexuality the internet is stuffed full of pornography which is hardly educational, although some men may disagree…
If you take the time to read some professional articles by doctors ans scientists it can greatly refresh the way of thinking about sex. It’s a natural human activity and even required for the procreation of the species and even though the importance of a healthy sex life, many couples never talk about it and sadly many women never experience the joys of a full orgasm.
One of the recent articles talked about the link to Yoga and a better sex life. This is something we’re really for as a company as we’re constantly trying to lead people to a batter sex life and although sex toys are a good part of that, there are many other ways to have pleasurable sex life and yoga is one of those routes even though not direct another link has been proven.
Upon first thought it seems like the flexibility is the key, not quite the truth as if it were so then gymnasts would have the best sex life out of any of us! The real secret is yoga teaches mindfulness and relaxation. It allows the person to disconnect with everyday life and to focus on the task at hand. Being self aware is also the foundation of Tantric sex and the well-known Kama Sutra technique.
Yoga teaches to focus on each specific part of the body through the movements and be aware of what is going on. If you transfer this to your bedroom moment with your husband the link is noticeable – when you focus and be mindful on the manipulation of his fingers, it’s easy to experience the greatest orgasm. Follow the movements of your muscles, focus and concentrate on the release of energy. Think of a yoga technique and transfer all you have learned in between the sheets and an astoundingly better sex life is right there ready for you to take hold. Focus is another serious topic, the Journal of Sexual medicine also quoted that many women lack focus during foreplay and sex which inhibits their ability to fully get involved with the situation and creates a certain detachment which is a serious detriment to sexual satisfaction.
1. Don’t worry about lack of flexibility. This comes with practice like any sport. Over time you’ll develop these skills but remember – this is not the single secret to better sex. You want to relish the emotional and mental aspects of yoga over the physical.
2. Pick a spot in the back off to the side. Allowing a better view of the structure as well as the advanced “yogis” at the front who like to show off their skills. You can follow the people for several angles to maximize your position.
3. Mediate. Try guides meditation or self hypnosis – this is after your class. Sometimes an instructor can lead you to the right place to learn proper meditation techniques these can come in very useful especially if you’re a highly stressed person or your mind runs a mile a minute, you’ll need help learning to let go of the stress as this is key to mindfulness.
4. Focus on the physical. After the mindful part is fully realized, time to focus on the movements of your body. The stretches get your blood flowing and holding the position loosens your muscles. These motions will help as libido booster and get you in the mood for sex.
September is National Yoga Month so check the local listings for free first classes and discounts on memberships. Learn to meditate and focus your mind on one singular topic while shutting away the rambling in your head, when you can really clear your mind you’ll be a sexual shaman on the way to enlightenment and the final goal – better orgasms!
To read this and other articles from the Journal of Sexual medicine, the month’s issues are available for reading at the library online at http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com
There’s nothing like a new relationship. Hot, heavy and always in a heightened state of passion and lust. Fast forward a few years and you’ll come across an eventual dry spell. There are many tips on how to get your sex life back in full swing again but this time we’ll cherish the sexless side and bring to light some reason why a sexual dry spell can be a good thing to have.
When the hormones aren’t raging and you’re sitting in bed late at night getting ready to shut off the lights, it’s a prime time to have a nice conversation. Starting with the popular ice breaker question “how was your day” to talking about mores serious matters like family planning, being together in bed is a nice place to have a heart to heart with your spouse. Whys is bed such a great place for conversation? You’re sitting beside each other without direct eye contact which allows you to open up to personal matters easily, when you’re not directly having someone in the light it’s easier to let your emotions out.
When you’re dating, it seem as if everything is about sex. Men are constantly wooing women trying to get them into bed. It’s just a natural instinct driven by a primal urge, and friendship is often strained between men and women since sex always gets in the way. Now that intercourse if off the table, you can get to know each other on a friendship basis, depending your relationship.
Take away a kid’s favorite toy and ten give it back to them a month later and hey love it just like the day they got it. Rotating the supply of toys is actually a very popular technique since it keeps the “newness” there. We always want what we can’t have and when it comes back it’s better then ever before. The same goes with sex. Enjoy the time off from your sex life. When you finally have your encounter, it will be very explosive. The longer you wait, the better it will be when you get frisky again.
For women, shaving can become a chore. There’s a lot of ground to cover and sometimes you’re just too busy. No worries, in a dry spell, you can either jump out of the shower and use this extra time to finish other chores or maybe you want to pamper yourself with a new sweetly scented body wash instead. Whatever the reason, it’s easy to be lazy with you personal grooming knowing a hand won;t be running up your leg anytime soon!
This tip is for single women and married gals alike. In the quest to primp up, look pretty and find a mate we shelve our relationships with female friends. Call up your college pal and go for coffee, hit the mall do some shopping. Quality time with your female friends is often overlooked in the latter years of life after commitment from men and the time ti takes culturing male-female relationships. Plan a girls night out and forget the guys, focus your time on dancing and acting goofy together. It can be the best night you’ve had in a long time.
A cock ring is no longer a simple looking, perfectly rounded ring. For a person who’s never seen the rings category they may be quite surprised upon first glance. It’s actually the most colorful section of all with several interesting looking devices. One may ask themselves – what do these do?
Originally rings were constriction devices design to prolong an erection. By constricting the penis it limited blood flow back into the body which is the root of an erection. In this case, a simple band would do. The one day some genius designer in a factory somewhere decided it would be a nice idea to add a title something to the top of the ring – thinking of the body’s position during intercourse the clitoris comes very close to the base of the penis, all that’s required is a little extra length and perhaps a curve to the tip and it can rub her magic spot thus enhancing the enjoyment of sexual intercourse.
The first trial run must have been a great encounter – it was a whole new way to enjoy intercourse and clitoral stimulation without having to touch down there. A new revolution was started and it blossomed from there…
Today several styles are available and not all of them have the aforementioned top protruding piece for clitoral stimulation. Certain styles such as in the blue photos attached are flattened and rounded. Made to rub against the labia with the thought that any external stimulations will enhance sexual intercourse.
It would have to be agreed this is a great addition, it’s a favorite way for couples to try a sex toy for the first time since it does not vibrate, it’s very small and there is no fumbling required – slip it on the penis and enjoy.
To answer the initial question asked above, Do Fancy Looking Cock Rings do the Trick? The conclusion would be yes, they do the trick. keep in mind it’s not going to add a powerful orgasm but the subtle touching of more skin space is an enhancer and will make every motion just a little bit better therefore enhancing sex as a whole.
The biggest day for love is quickly approaching, it’s a very busy time for both sexes however a heavy weight is placed on the woman’s side but men need love too – a different kind of love but it’s all the same.
A guy loves a surprise of you wearing sexy lingerie just as much as you love getting a bouquet of roses.
Every Monday for the next 3 weeks we’ll give Valentine’s Day ideas to women for men so they can enjoy part of this romantic day for lovers and it can bring you closer – which is the ultimate goal. Here are some do’s and don’ts for ladies when it comes to surprising men.
Valentine’s Day Don’ts
Don’t surprise him at work.
Women love being surprised in front of their co-workers, it’s a wonderful public grand gesture which shows everyone around how much we are loved. For guys, it’s an embarrassing feat that makes all the other males in the office make fun of him. Keep the surprising for your own private moments.
Don’t buy him flowers.
In the age when women and men are considered equal, some women misinterpret this by thinking that men and women like the same things. Even though equality abounds there is still a deep-routed instinct that will never go away. This is a long winded way of saying men hate flowers and they always will. Don’t try to change a man’s basic instinct.
Don’t pressure him.
Many men are not in touch with their feelings and this day makes them sweat with anxiety as there is such high expectations from women. If you hound him expecting something miraculous and ground breaking it just puts him on the spot and makes him nervous. Let it be, if you’re worried he’ll forget you can mention it in passing conversation like “We should go out for dinner on Valentine’s day” and leave it at that. Read off his response and you can tell how anxious he is. If he wants to plan something great he will but not every guy can be forced into something like this.
Valentine’s Day Do’s
Surprise him with lingerie.
This is probably the single biggest gesture you can do for him. It’s the male equivalent of a dozen roses. If you’re not so keen on lingerie we have some choices that cover more, like a flowing baby doll top so you can feel confident exposing yourself as eye candy for him. It’s really important to mention however that he loves what he sees regardless of the tiny flaws you think you have. Guys see the big picture and don’t focus on the little things like women do.
Cook him dinner.
Set a table for 2 by candlelight and make him some sexy aphrodisiacs infused recipes, we like the romantic menu planner as you can print out a specialized recipe based upon your skills in the kitchen and the level of romance you’re going for. A homemade dinner from scratch is a sure fire way to straight to his heart. Just a hint: this tip accompanies the lingerie tip above to create a perfect V-Day for men.
Make sure to appreciate any gift he gives you.
It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the day that you have high expectations in your mind only to be disappointed by a “measly” box of chocolates. He thinks it’s something you’ll love and he did get you something so appreciate it, give him a sincere kiss and a thank you because after all, he didn’t forget about the day!
A foot fetish is one of the most common sexual fetishes apart from genitalia. For the analytical mind, you may wonder why feet are a target after all they are dirty, smelly and abused as we walk around with them stuffed tightly into a dark musty shoe all day long so what’s the sexual allure?
Neuroscientists & Acupressurists Perspectives
A very interesting study was done by a curious neuroscientist named Vilanayar Ramachandran who discovered a connection between feet and genitals as they’re mapped in the same area in the brain. Further detailed results can be found in this article about why do people have foot fetishes. It’s quite eye-opening and it really does make sense!
Another possibility that I suggest is the link between acupressure and the genitals. If you study pressure points on the foot, there is a link between certain foot massage techniques and sexual arousal although some may argue it’s because you’ve made the person relaxed and now they are more receptive to sexual arousal, others debate that there is scientific merit to all of this. There are many sources citing libido enhancement using acupressure which helps to harness energy flow. We’re not talking “old hippy wives-tales” type of remedies rather these holistic treatments are producing valid study results in the new-age era. It’s a more popular way for couples to connect, to reach beyond simple foreplay and sex you’re sharing an entirely different kind of passion, one that reaches into the psyche and soul.
Perhaps another reason for this peculiar but popular fetish is the sensitivity of the feet. Going back to their dirty purpose, a foot is not usually pampered (outside of a pedicure). If you have never had your toes sucked before you’re really in for a treat. It’s a highly sensitive tingling feeling; men probably like the woman’s reaction, getting her all squeamy on the bed. As for the ladies perspective, getting attention away from the sexual hot spots shows that he likes to pay attention to her and her pleasure matters. Sort of like embracing every womanly inch of her body and treating her like a temple or a Goddess – sounds good doesn’t it ladies ?
Bringing Foot Fetish into Reality.
There used to be a foot masturbator for men of two feet together. The penis was inserted into the hole between the ankles. We offered this one for sale as a test to see if it would be an item we should carry, even though a foot fetish is so popular, men don’t want to buy a masturbator shaped like a foot and as a result, it had a very temporarily lifespan on our stock room!
Foot Techniques and Foreplay.
In some future lesson regarding new foreplay techniques I will make sure to mention toe sucking however most people may shun this and never give it a try. I am sort of on this side myself – I do think it’s not very appealing maybe it’s the self consciousness coming out worrying that my toes are smelly when he’s sucking on them. I would only suggest trying this in the bath or a jacuzzi especially for the first time. I speak from personal experience when a boyfriend a long time ago sucked on my toes, he asked me first which was probably a wise thing to do and then I hesitantly said yes. It tickled so much I did not find it arousing at all but it was very playful and to be silly and playful is a real turn-on so I was aroused, indirectly.
I’m not into foot fetishes myself and certainly don’t condone it but want to present the scientific reason behind this weird focus – when you read the two links I provided you’ll probably lean something new, I did!
Believe it or not, this is a common problem facing women. Ask a man if he thinks his penis is too big and chances are he’ll say he wish it were bigger. Truth is the vagina is not very large, sexual intercourse with a longer penis will often push against the cervix causing pain for the woman. It feels like a solid push inside, not very welcoming nor arousing. The following 6 tips are for couples to help enjoy sex when his penis is too large.
1.) Timing of the Menstrual Cycle.
Following your monthly cycle allows you to time intercourse on the days when the cervix is soft. During ovulation which occurs between day 12 and 14 of the cycle (the first day is the beginning of the menstrual flow), the cervix softens and opens slightly allowing semen to flow up into the uterus. Sex during this time is the most pleasurable for women as nature intended it to be the ideal time for conception. As a result, a large penis will be most welcoming as the top of the vagina is swollen and soft.
2.) Add more Lubrication.
This tip is always suggested for solving sexual issues but it’s true, wetter is better and even though we’ve suggested lube a hundred times, it’s never better then being used in this scenario. Use lots, don’t just put it on his penis but spread it over your vagina opening and even on your perineum. As the skin stretches to accommodate his extra girth, there will hardly be any pulling, his manhood will ease in like a rubber tube going down a water slide.
3.) Invest in Thick Cock Rings.
A sex life savior, these thick cock rings are specifically made for solving painful penetrations due to a bigger then average penis. The set of three is very thick with a flat back so you can stack them on his shaft. They’re very soft and when the ring comes into contact with the labia, it helps to enhance her pleasure. Another version is this double support ring that will reduce penetration about 1 1/4 inch.
4.) Pretzel/Scissors Position.
This sexual position has a few different terms but the general idea is the couple lays on the bed in a spooning position, he enters via the back and the woman’s legs can either stay closed in the same position or she can lay a leg over his hi backwards. This minimizes penetrations and allows the woman to move forward should it become too unconformable.
5.) Reverse Cowgirl Position.
She will be able to adjust the depth required for maximum pleasure. The angle of the woman’s body as she props herself up by putting her hands on his thighs is helpful for minimizing penetration. Also she can squat on the tip only rocking back and forth.
6.) Missionary Position.
If the woman lays on the bed and keeps her legs closed, it minimizes how far her partner can reach, also the rubbing on the thighs and maximum skin to skin contact enhances the passion and makes both of you feel more connected during sex.
Hollow strap on dildos are very popular, customers purchase them very often and from pre-sales consultations and review feedback we’ve received, there are 2 reasons for this purchase:
1.) To enjoy sex when a man has erectile dysfunction.
Some men find that a penis pump is not as effective or perhaps they have adverse side effects to medications like Levitra and Viagra. A safe and fast solution is to get one of these hollow dildos that strap on to the waist with the use of an elastic band. Most straps on are made to be for both sexes however we have one type that’s made for men on a budget.
The elastic waist band stays in place and the entire tube is hollow in the center allowing the penis to rest inside. The exterior is solid and it’s not very soft but many women do enjoy this firm pressure during penetration. We do have some softer alternatives too but they are higher priced. Make sure to see the penis extension section for other alternatives.
2.) For a woman to experience a thick girth.
Some top out at 2 inches across making the tools perfect for fetish sex and with the low price considering the bulky size, for the couple who love big penetrations the woman get to enjoy and the man is treated to an impressive sight – these are the sex tools they reach for every time. Luckily there are some that are so large that an entire erect penis can fit inside.
The dual purpose cheap hollow strap on’s are a sexual savior for many couples and if you fit into any of these 2 categories, this style will most definitely pique your interest.
The ball is dropping in times square and all the doe-eyed couples and gazing at other about to share the popular first passionate kiss of the new year. It’s a lovely tradition for people in a relationship but for the singletons out there – it’s a gross tradition that makes you feel uncomfortable. You’re standing there like a lonely void in the crowd as eyes are taken off the ball and closed in the moment of a kiss. What do you do? Most singles look at the ground, the ones with voyeuristic tendencies watch the other couples, or maybe you’re scanning the crowd looking for that attractive male who’s all alone too. That would be a nice pick up technique, you instantly know who is single and who is not at the stroke of midnight and chances are if you approach a member of the opposite sex at this time, there will rarely be a rejection! Don’t worry about starting off 2012 flying solo, here are some reasons why it’s hip to be single.
1.) You’re tied to no one but yourself.
You’re free to do what you please. No need for compromise with yourself, you can ski, hike, sky dive, cook and never clean. Do what you choose, life is your oyster.
2.) You don’t need to dress yourself on your day off.
It’s really nice to lounge e around in the house on your day off, hair messed up, no makeup, pajama bottoms all day long. You don’t need to impress anyone and can safely let it all out!
3.) It’s fun to put more effort into your looks when you go out.
If you’re single and always on the market, it’s fun to send that extra half an hour on your hair before you go out. When you’re attachment you’re not trying to woo anyone so it’s easy to let yourself go.
4.) Have the best sex when you’re solo.
A savvy chick knows this tip is right around the corner! Yes passionate lovemaking is hot but the best vibrator is even hotter. capable of bringing you to orgasmic fantasy within a minute or so, sometimes even seconds, a rabbit vibrator is your boyfriend and there’s nothing wrong with that. Sex toys for women can be much more enjoyable then a guy but if you don;t believe this statement, by all means you’re invited to contact us so we can set you up with your future joy-toy!
5.) Put your time to good use.
Without a significant other taking up your time, you can do some good for the world. Why not volunteer your time to a charity, maybe walk dogs as a local shelter. When you give your time to someone in need, you feel as good as they do at the end of the day.
6.) Take a course in a topic that interests you.
Going back to the statement life is your oyster, seize the day by learning something new you’ve always wanted to try. Take a pottery class, learn to paint or salsa dance. When you’re settles in a relationship you won’t have as much time for these sorts of activities and now is the only time you’re allowed to fill your social calendar with things you want to do.
The fashion industry relies heavily on sexuality, with the barely there waif figures traipsing down the runway exposing enough to give it a R rating, a tall slim woman is the epitome of elegance and sexiness. Designers can’t deny this connection but sometimes the “elephant in the room” is avoided however we have to give props to one designer who came right out to the “dark side” and created a condom. There’s actually a good purpose behind it however, in recognition of World AIDS Day which was held on December 1st. It’s to promote safe sex and their luxury brand at the same time, consider it like link bait to bring light of attention to a really serious matter.
This product is sure making headlines as you would expect, an astronomical price tag has been attached to this simple device the layperson can purchase for a mere buck or two. The price tag? A whopping 68 dollars. If it were to be cheap, fashion followers worldwide would wonder why is it so cheap as they have a brand to uphold so it’s no wonder the price is high. What we think it humorous is how a famous European architect designed them too, it’s a condom for goodness sake, how much design really is needed?
We can give props to Trojan for condom design with specs like rubbed, bumps and spirals and there’s even a mixes too (we have these for sale by the way. The Louis Vuitton condom? Don’t expect that to hit our shelves anytime soon!) The point is they took a stand in observance of this important issue and it has worked – we are commenting on it now raising awareness of the AIDS epidemic and if you search for this online you’ll come across thousands of similar published pieces written in different perspectives all promoting the need for safe sex becuase in the end, that’s what really matters.